Are we really doing Auspicious things in an Auspisious way?

Few days/months ago have seen a marriage, its premises are really aesthetic and glittering but the great thing missing is; almost all wore black coats am sure its an Indian and local marriage so no question raises to think that they celebrate marriage in black suits every where.  Something I didn't feel good about that! a marriage means one life time live show and it should be bright and have the cheerfulness all around but I felt the environment gloomy as if people are there doing or say attending a mandatory session or say a forceful responsibility.  A light music, Lilbit of clean humor, the rhythm of mantras really a life time show to remember and remain in the heart forever.